Mother’s Day, from the Other Side of Parenting | Part 2, Fostering

As a prolifer, a public one at that, I deal with all kinds of moms. I had the opportunity to know about the other side of parenting: The foster system.

Foster parents are definitely the unsung heroes of parenting. I always knew this but did not KNOW it until I was given the opportunity to serve. It was sweet, it was heartbreaking, it was worth it. Seeing someone in the lowest part of their little life was heart wrenching.

The foster system is NOT perfect; some kids slip through the cracks, and sometimes it may have been the best thing for the child in crisis. In our foster journey, it was the best for her. Even in her little two year old brain and memories, she fought me hard because that’s all she knew. There was breakthrough and love and a bunch of silliness.

I think of days watching her watch the rain.
I think of days watching her picking dandelions.
I think of days watching her dance with bubbles.
I imagine calico dresses and rolling hills for her to explore.
I wished for more time.
But.
But then I realize that I just put her in a bubble of time that does not change. She never ages. She is always safe. And she always smiles.

I got to be a mom again. I got the chance to help a child understand her life matters. And that alone is more than enough.

Happy Mother’s Day!

Mother’s Day from the Other Side of Parenting | Part 1, Non-Parenting

As a prolifer, a public one at that, I deal with all kinds of moms. A LOT.

As moms, we go to the sidewalk to empower other moms keep their unborn children with real options and solutions. As moms, we go on outreaches to show the public WHY motherhood is better than a trail of tears from aborting children who are innocent of all crimes. As moms, we teach our families the importance of the ‘office’ of mom, the ‘career’ of mom, the unpaid super hero since the very beginning of time.

And as a mom, I can tell you that through the great parenting you received as a child, you can be the mom you are meant to be. All it takes is time, patience, and tons of LOVE.

BUT (there’s always a but in there) what about the rest of us who learned on the job, had no training, and is the product of non-parent parents?

Without going into great personal detail, I can tell you from experience that you will mimic what you are taught, even passively. This is why women who are parented by a non-parent need to find those women you admire to get what you need as a mom of your own family.

There are moms EVERYWHERE that want to pass on their abilities to women who want to learn and glean from them. They can come from anywhere, you may already know of some without even realizing it. Maybe it’s a favorite aunt, a neighbor, a woman at church, a friend. I learned much from people who never knew I paid attention.

We thank God for moms no matter where they are in their parenting or non-parenting journey. Every mom is a teacher and teachable. All you you have to do is care enough to listen to them, cry with them, laugh with them, and just be there.

Happy Mother’s Day!

Podcast: Part Three of Failure of Abortion Series

Sidewalk Rescuing and the Thing About Abolitionists The Public Prolifer

EP21: Sidewalk rescue is the new sidewalk counseling. And to answer your question, rescues ARE BIBLICAL. But what's up with the anti-prolife abolitionists? In short, it's a cult. And they testify against prolife laws like the proaborts do. I know, I know. Watch Mark Harrington's show and those 'interesting' comments here: https://www.facebook.com/TheMarkHarringtonShow/videos/295019862338477 A changed mind is a terrible thing to waste. READ  MORE HERE: Sidewalk Rescuing and Ministry, by a Minister Gettin' All Westboro in Prolife Activism   facebook.com/keeplifelegal keeplifelegal.com
  1. Sidewalk Rescuing and the Thing About Abolitionists
  2. FAILURE OF ABORTION: A Five Part Series to Forgive, Restore and Heal After Abortion | Part Five, Forgiveness
  3. Mother's Day from the Other Side of Parenting
  4. FAILURE OF ABORTION: A Five Part Series to Forgive, Restore and Heal After Abortion | Part Four, The Church
  5. FAILURE OF ABORTION: A Five Part Series to Forgive, Restore and Heal After Abortion | Part Three, The System and Government

Social Media Scraping, Mandates and Other Atrocities of the State

So AI companies are ‘scraping’ your social media accounts WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE OR APPROVAL to make files of who you are with facial recognition. Yeah, yeah….you’re not a criminal so no harm, no foul. Really. There is no proof that your private information isn’t in the hands of an entity that will misuse it. And by ‘misuse it’ I mean illegally. There is pretty much no way you can force the AI companies to stop using this ‘information’ or erasing your file. What can you do about it? NOTHING. LITERALLY NOTHING.

It’s kind of like when someone on Facebook takes your profile photo and basic public info on your page and makes a new one pretending TO BE YOU. It’s happened to most of us. Before you go further, go tighten up your FB account.

And my personal favorite, laws passed that were PROVEN to be Constitutional, struck down by lofty agenda driven judges as NOT Constitutional. WHAT???? Case in point, the prolife “heartbeat bill” that has passed in a myriad of states, including mine. I TESTIFIED FOR IT SIX TIMES. This law would save at least 96% of all unborn persons that would have been aborted under the current laws. It took ten years to finally be signed into law. We had a constitutional attorney PROVE it was constitutional. PROVED IT. But still, struck down as unconstitutional. What can you do about it? NOTHING. LITERALLY NOTHING.

So then, what about other matters that we know are infringements on our civil liberties like mask mandates? This ‘pandemic’ has PROVEN our civil liberties will not be enforced. The state Constitution does not say the Governor can make laws. But here we are, still under ILLEGAL mandates. INTERPOSE, says the new patriot movements. And they are correct, we should. Nothing changes, the governors are still allowed to illegally force you to give up your freedoms. You’ll be arrested, canceled, lose your business. But, THE HELL YOU SAY!!! I’M AN AMERICAN, A PATRIOT!!!! I HAVE RIGHTS!!!! But no one will enforce the Constitution, even Biden said that “no amendment is absolute”. I would love to test that with Roe v. Wade.

On paper, actually a 245 year old parchment that freed us from tyranny, you would be correct, you have rights. But do you? No. Because judges, et al, hold your freedom in the palms of their hands and there is not one thing you can do about it. They have the same information we all do about the law and infringement of it. Talking heads – elected officials – can’t do anything because even when it’s been proven to be either Constitutional or unconstitutional, JUDGES YOU DID NOT ELECT OR APPOINT WILL STOP IT and can make YOU pay the petitioner’s legal fees. Happens with prolife laws all the time. Can you imagine if England paid the U.S. for the Revolutionary War?

Another consideration that prolifers have to deal with from time to time is abolitionists. They say to only back political candidates that will abolish abortion. Okay. That would be great, we all want that. But my dear abolitionist friends cannot tell me how that can actually happen with the way the legal system and government is set up. AT ALL. No plan, no glory. We seldom see them interpose, or rescue. Again, no plan, no glory, no opinion.

My dear Patriot, stop acting like you can stop any of this. You cannot. Interposition only stops what is currently happening on a very small scale. What stopped this crap nearly 250 years ago was not elections or committees or protests. IT WAS WAR. So please stop. I do enjoy learning more about our government from people WITHOUT A PLAN TO FIX IT. Most of us, if not all, are being watched by AI using social media to keep track of all of us. To them, everyone is an enemy of the State, we are guilty until proven innocent.

An election was stolen, there is enormous physical proof it was, but do you see anyone sweeping the White House of it’s offenders and putting them in prison? At all?

MAYBE IT’S TIME TO GET REVOLUTIONARY.

The False side of Freakonomics, or The Economic Abortion Query

Economics. It seems like such a safe subject, right? Think of the television commercials that look at the ‘cause and effect’ of being Phil Shifley – they show how the most unforeseen outcome can be the answer to a scenario; but Occam’s razor is a principle stating that among competing hypotheses, the answer is the most obvious [most sense or path of least resistance]. Essentially, unless the math doesn’t jive, it’s conjecture. The math of this abortion equation does NOT jive….how can this have possibly been calculated when ‘cause and effect’ cannot be totally determined. Incidentally, cause and effect are philosophical, not statistical.

The abortion economic question is this: Was abortion the answer to lower criminal activity BECAUSE of their mother’s present economic and social status?

The author of ‘Freakonomics’ wrote: “The very factors that drove millions of American women to have an abortion also seemed to predict that their children, had they been born, would have led unhappy and possibly criminal lives…….Perhaps the most dramatic effect of legalized abortion, however, and one that would take years to reveal itself, was its impact on crime. In the early 1990s, just as the first cohort of children born after Roe v. Wade was hitting its late teen years—the years during which young men enter their criminal prime—the rate of crime began to fall. What this cohort was missing, of course, were the children who stood the greatest chance of becoming criminals. And the crime rate continued to fall as an entire generation came of age minus the children whose mothers had not wanted to bring a child into the world. Legalized abortion led to less unwantedness; unwantedness leads to high crime; legalized abortion, therefore, led to less crime.”

Also know that the author commented that having a swimming pool in your back yard makes your child more likely to die than not having a pool. I might agree to that, and add that having a way to harm a child close at hand, whether it is a swimming pool or an abortion practitioner, to be a very BAD DECISION and can result in a child’s death. Further, the child can be taught to stay away from the pool, a fence with a locked gate can be installed, BUT an abortion is something a child does not accidentally fall into and drown. A choice was made FOR the child to die because of his/her economic status, and now the scenario of the swimming pool is safe from the child’s certain drowning death. To be clear, most poverty stricken families do not have swimming pools to be concerned about. Their argument is perverse and invalid, even offensive.

Following the absurdity of Freakonomics is, well, absurd. The likelihood of a child born in poverty becoming a criminal is the same as any person born, regardless of the child’s circumstances. Was abortion the answer to lower criminal activity BECAUSE of their mother’s present economic and social status? Some would assume that to be true. The truth is that most moms are much more concerned about their own poverty FIRST. The author of Freakonomics did not consider the truth of the situation, who actually aborts, and why.

QUESTION: Who here is responsible for how they were conceived? A compelling thought, a reasonable consideration. 

Of course I have a problem with this scenario using abortion to kill would-be criminals, and particularly with the author of Freakonomics, because IF his so-called research is correct, then every third-world child would never live outside the womb because they will always be in poverty, malnourished and ill. Billionaires like Bill and Melinda Gates uses population control to decide who gets to be born in developing countries because of the unborn child’s circumstances and his/her parent’s economic status. Again, who here is responsible for how they were conceived? 

Even if there is just one parent, a child’s life can have meaning and true purpose. A parent’s job is to bring up a child to be a good friend, parent, spouse, worker, and citizen. Cause and effect makes for interesting conversation but should NEVER determine the outcome of life and death for anyone that cannot testify on their own behalf.